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New category · Launching May 2026
Hosting & Entertaining
2 stories coming soon

Twenty years of hosting on one side of the door — and twenty years of being a thoughtful guest on the other. The conversations nobody else is having about how to host without exhausting yourself, what to bring when you're invited, and how to leave any room with three new friends.

Coming soon🌹 HostingLaunching this week
How to walk into a dinner party and leave with three new friends

The dinner-party-specific sequel to Walk Into a Room. The gift you bring, the way you dress, and the five moves that mean you leave with three women in your phone you genuinely want to see again.

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May 19🌹 HostingLaunches Tuesday
What I've learned from 20 years of hosting dinner parties no one wants to leave

After twenty years of hosting in my Florida garden, here is what actually matters — and the one thing I will not compromise on. The food, the help, the table, and the warmth you bring when you open the door.

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For the way you actually live
Lifestyle & Real Talk
6 stories

The conversations nobody else is having — about social confidence, work-life balance, the home that holds you, and the things that matter to women navigating real life after 35.

"After 35 you do not need more information. You need the right person telling you the truth, and you need it to be honest."

— Anjie, Style & Soul 35+
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Skincare, makeup, what actually works
Beauty & Glow
6 stories

The skincare, makeup and beauty routines that genuinely work after 35 — what to start, what to skip, what to repurchase and what was a waste of money. Honest reviews and the products that earn a permanent place on the shelf.

"The internet has plenty of information. What it does not have enough of is someone you trust, telling you what is actually true."

— Anjie, Style & Soul 35+
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Cities I keep going back to
Travel & Destinations
7 stories

Honest travel guides written from real experience — multiple visits, real hotels, the meals worth the trip and the misconceptions that need correcting. Curated for women 35+ who want to travel well, not just travel often.

✈️ Travel · FranceMay 2026
Paris — the city that never stops being worth it

The Eurostar from London, Angelina hot chocolate, a picnic by the Eiffel Tower, the Wall of Love in Montmartre and a night cruise on the Seine.

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✈️ Travel · SwitzerlandMay 2026
Switzerland by train — the most beautiful journey I have ever taken

Geneva, Interlaken, Jungfraujoch, Lauterbrunnen, the Glacier Express and St Moritz. A personal guide from someone who has done every mile of it.

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✈️ Travel · UKApr 2026
London — the city that gives you everything, most of it for free

The Berkeley Fashion Tea, Dishoom, Trafalgar Square on foot. Everything I know about London — from someone whose family lives there.

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✈️ Travel · TurkeyApr 2026
Istanbul — where two continents meet and every meal is worth the trip

The W Istanbul, Nusrat for breakfast, Hafız Mustafa for delights and always the metro. Everything I've learned across multiple visits.

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✈️ Travel · UAEApr 2026
Dubai — the honest guide for women who want to do it properly

The St Regis at sunrise. What to wear. Where the misconceptions are. Multiple visits, one honest guide.

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✈️ Travel · ItalyApr 2026
Venice — slowing down in the city that has nothing to prove

The quiet neighbourhoods, the lesser-known palaces, the food beyond the tourist trail. Venice the way it deserves to be seen.

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✈️ Travel · WellnessApr 2026
Wellness travel for women over 35

How to travel in a way that restores rather than depletes — the destinations, the rituals and the mindset.

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